I Blamed Myself For My Failed Marriage – Actress Caroline Danjuma

                                                                             Caroline Danjuma

Nollywood actress, Caroline Danjuma has opened up about her failed marriage to her ex-husband, Musa Danjuma. The actress on her Instagram page said that she blamed herself for not having a perfect marriage and she only realised, she was not a failure when she started to heal.

She wrote ; I blamed myself for not making a perfect marriage , I blamed my self for both faults of ours until I started healing then I knew I was not a failure . I prayed to God for assistance most importantly to forgive my self and him . Rather than hate the outcome of what was ,I chose love and peace of mind for what is . We both ain’t perfect and that is what makes us human . I dealt with the hurtful words from friends and strangers , the stigma and constant mockery without their knowledge of what truly happened . God whispered ,I am with you and that was it . My journey to finding me began and I never looked back . I came , I saw , I conquered ??, most importantly I have found my lost identity . Healed , restored , unprovoked, loving and blessed ..#howcarolynagothergrooveback?.. thanks to @lanreolusola who spoke through the words in the Bible to help me find my way . Some of us are better off as friends than lovers . It is ok to see a professional counselor , you ain’t mad you just need clarification . It is ok to fail and rise again . Let God lead you . No hate but love always . Accept your faults forgive the other and move on in peace ????. This is my first time talking about my divorce , not an easy journey ,most times very painful moments especially if you are a perfectionist and kids are involved . Kill the hate it will only ruin you . If you are wondering how you will pick up financially trust me you will ,just stay focused and determined . Love without regrets ?.